At some point in your life, ask yourself 4 questions.
Do I want to be average or great?
Do I want real personal power?
Not just being successful in the material outer world but more importantly as a person. I’m saying your inner world, who you really are.
Who am I?
Who do I want to be?
Note: Choices aren't necessarily bad or good. A choice made at the moment you made the choice is the best you could do at the time. Now what must happen if the choice made is bad, is to learn from your choice, or experience. What was your part in the ending? What can you do next time to improve? Even if you feel it was not that much of your fault realize that there is always something you could have done better. Not making the choice to began with, rushing into the choice, responding differently, etc.
Good comes from the bad, just a different type of good - WISDOM….
I… Read the material
YOUR CHOICE
Understand & Realize↓
ONLY YOU control your thoughts…
YOU create your inner world
YOU control your desires, intentions, beliefs; and your life
YOU can’t control the outer world but……
…It’s how you respond from your inner world to the outer world.
Understand the power of your mind & your attitude.
How much we realize, Know, and maybe already apply this material in our life varies with each individual
II…Realize what love is and isn’t
LOVE is a CHOICE
There is no selfishness in love. The desire to give must be without motive other than the desire to give.
This is the greatest-and most difficult Life lesson…
FEAR is the opposite of LOVE
EGO is FEAR-based
LOVE IS COURAGE
LOVE IS LIFE
LOVE is energy, a frequency, not a feeling, it is an attitude, or perspective.
The feeling of LOVE comes from being in the frequency of LOVE
The reason for being - is to be LOVE
Done with balance, never extremes. The universe of love is a universe of law, for love is law. He who works with the law of love is working with the universe, and the universe is working with him. There is no selfishness in love. And the universe’s main law is about balance, because Love is balanced.
Love is Energy, an action, not a feeling
God is Energy or Love
The Foundation of Love is BALANCE.
Love is the Foundation of the Universe.
The Foundation of your Character, owners' manual should be based on Love not the ego fear-based system. What is your BALANCE?
GOD-ENERGY-BALANCE-CHOICE-LOVE-LIFE-UNIVERSE-CHARACTER…all interconnected or as quantum physics says, intertangled.
The end goal is always to have an open heart, which is a CHOICE….
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We must also know who we are and want to be. Know yourself, define your inner and outer world goals. Our likes and dislikes. What we can bend or be flexible on, or not. Rules of conduct our character. What do I stand for, how am I going to act in life….
Part of self-love is wanting self-improvement
III…Realize what the Ego really is
Awareness OF & Self-Awareness
Once you understand how the Automatic Ego Thought & Reaction System operates you realize that ego you is not the ‘real you.’
We can see how we constantly:
Accuse
Prosecute
Judge
Convict and
Sentence ….. people
A system of TRYING to control the outside world. A system based on conflict. A system in self-protection of our self-centered ego personality, not the real you.
Realize that laziness & your ego are your enemies.
When you learn to observe your feelings rather than be consumed by them, they lose their power over you.
Ignorance is no longer an excuse😂
IV…Our Energy/Attitude (or perspective)
YOUR CHOICE
Your Energy CHOICE: Love or the Ego Fear
Your predominant mental state affects your thoughts, your desires, your intentions, and thus your actions.
Self-love, with the desire for self-improvement
By focusing your attention and following your integrity, you can measure your choices by your actions and reactions.
This choice comes from love; that choice comes from fear
This choice makes me happy; that choice makes me unhappy
God gave us free will to choose where we are on the balance of his energy of love. Are you more BALANCED towards the human Fear-based, selfish Ego thought system, or more towards God’s Love-based, giving thought system. Your CHOICE….
V…We Do the Work
YOUR CHOICE
Update our owners’ operating manual. Working on our honesty, integrity, setting our personal standards, our personal code that we live by, and believe in.
Self-Awareness of who we are and who we want to be.
We are aware of our feelings & trigger points
We utilize the heart-mind connection tools
We utilize the 12 Agreements
We learn to control our inner selves, not trying to control those outside us.
We don’t argue
We don’t defend
We don’t assume
We don’t attack
We don’t constantly criticize
We don’t judge, we discern
We learn to respond in Love, not react from the Ego
Dedication to truth, honesty, & overcoming laziness.
Constant updating or maintenance is needed as your life experiences may affect your opinion, beliefs, inner and outer goals. Needing or wanting to add, modify, or delete rules, inner or outer goals, beliefs, opinions etc…
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Foundation Base: Character
Foundation Roof:
Energy Choice of Love
Your Attitude, perspective, and thus your thoughts or intentions
Foundation footing & floor:
Compassion
Virtues of love, kindness, gentleness, respect, joy, happiness, humility, and honesty. We are all born with these but we must cultivate, fertilize, and tend these to get a good crop…
Foundation Walls:
Self-awareness of the ego and laziness
Self-love & self-respect
Balance of Love
Self-Discipline of Love
Electrical System:
Helpful tools to transform negative emotions into positive ones
The energy channels of the body can be compared to the main wiring of a house. Imagine a trunk line that brings power from outside into the building’s service panel. This panel contains the circuit breakers that protect the inside wiring from short circuits and overloads. It also has the switches that control the current to all the rooms inside the house. Once your house, like your body, is properly wired and all the safety precautions have been made, it is ready to connect to (God’s universe) main utility company trunk line for power. You are ready to receive the power that comes from above and from beneath you without harm. The outer and the inner universe reflect each other. To become connected to God’s outer universe, one must first gain control of one’s inner universe, which we experience as a flow of energy, or chi, through one’s body.
Tao Power Tool video links:
Inner Smile: The Inner Smile is a way of awakening and harmonizing our Energy Body. The practice of bringing the body, chi, and mind into balance starts with the Inner Smile … https://www.scribd.com/doc/193645237/Michael-Winn-Way-of-the-Inner-Smile
6 Healing sounds: This helps to maintain the Chi balance throughout the system. Practice of the Six Healing Sounds will restore and maintain calmness and good health.
Both: both can be modified to your preferences after you understand the concept, the mind, and attitude…
Initial emotional identification, a helpful trick to assist you to pause before you say something dumb link….
Heart-mind connection: https://www.heartmath.org/articles-of-the-heart/study-validates-effectiveness-of-heart-lock-in-technique/
Lots of ways to do the above some do breath holds. Some just tap on their chest when they start to feel anger or other emotional triggers. Adjust to what works for you…
Material Needed: Love
Maintenance:
Doing the work and updating as needed per your learning from relationship experiences…