At some point in your life, ask yourself 4 questions.

1. Do I want to be average or great?

2. Do I want real personal power?

Not just being successful in the material outer world but more importantly as a person. I’m saying your inner world, who you really are.

1. Who am I?

2. Who do I want to be?

Note: Choices aren't necessarily bad or good. A choice made at the moment you made the choice is the best you could do at the time. Now what must happen if the choice made is bad, is to learn from your choice, or experience. What was your part in the ending? What can you do next time to improve? Even if you feel it was not that much of your fault realize that there is always something you could have done better. Not making the choice to began with, rushing into the choice, responding differently, etc.

Good comes from the bad, just a different type of good - WISDOM….

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I… Read the material

YOUR CHOICE

Understand & Realize↓

ONLY YOU control your thoughts…

YOU create your inner world

YOU control your desires, intentions, beliefs; and your life

YOU can’t control the outer world but……

…It’s how you respond from your inner world to the outer world.

Understand the power of your mind & your attitude.

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How much we realize, Know, and maybe already apply this material in our life varies with each individual

II…Realize what love is and isn’t

LOVE is a CHOICE

There is no selfishness in love. The desire to give must be without motive other than the desire to give.

This is the greatest-and most difficult Life lesson…

FEAR is the opposite of LOVE

EGO is FEAR-based

LOVE IS COURAGE

LOVE IS LIFE

LOVE is energy, a frequency, not a feeling, it is an attitude, or perspective.

The feeling of LOVE comes from being in the frequency of LOVE

The reason for being - is to be LOVE

Done with balance, never extremes. The universe of love is a universe of law, for love is law. He who works with the law of love is working with the universe, and the universe is working with him. There is no selfishness in love. And the universe’s main law is about balance, because Love is balanced.

Love is Energy, an action, not a feeling

God is Energy or Love

The Foundation of Love is BALANCE.

Love is the Foundation of the Universe.

The Foundation of your Character, owners' manual should be based on Love not the ego fear-based system. What is your BALANCE?

GOD-ENERGY-BALANCE-CHOICE-LOVE-LIFE-UNIVERSE-CHARACTER…all interconnected or as quantum physics says, intertangled.

The end goal is always to have an open heart, which is a CHOICE….

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Owners’ Operator Manual

We must also know who we are and want to be. Know yourself, define your inner and outer world goals. Our likes and dislikes. What we can bend or be flexible on, or not. Rules of conduct our character. What do I stand for, how am I going to act in life….

Part of self-love is wanting self-improvement

III…Realize what the Ego really is

Awareness OF & Self-Awareness

Once you understand how the Automatic Ego Thought & Reaction System operates you realize that ego you is not the ‘real you.’

We can see how we constantly:

Accuse

Prosecute

Judge

Convict and

Sentence ….. people

A system of TRYING to control the outside world. A system based on conflict. A system in self-protection of our self-centered ego personality, not the real you.

Realize that laziness & your ego are your enemies.

When you learn to observe your feelings rather than be consumed by them, they lose their power over you.

Ignorance is no longer an excuse😂

IV…Our Energy/Attitude (or perspective)

YOUR CHOICE

Your Energy CHOICE: Love or the Ego Fear

Your predominant mental state affects your thoughts, your desires, your intentions, and thus your actions.

Self-love, with the desire for self-improvement

By focusing your attention and following your integrity, you can measure your choices by your actions and reactions.

• This choice comes from love; that choice comes from fear

• This choice makes me happy; that choice makes me unhappy

God gave us free will to choose where we are on the balance of his energy of love. Are you more BALANCED towards the human Fear-based, selfish Ego thought system, or more towards God’s Love-based, giving thought system. Your CHOICE….

V…We Do the Work

YOUR CHOICE

Update our owners’ operating manual. Working on our honesty, integrity, setting our personal standards, our personal code that we live by, and believe in.

Self-Awareness of who we are and who we want to be.

1. We are aware of our feelings & trigger points

2. We utilize the heart-mind connection tools

3. We utilize the 12 Agreements

4. We learn to control our inner selves, not trying to control those outside us.

5. We don’t argue

6. We don’t defend

7. We don’t assume

8. We don’t attack

9. We don’t constantly criticize

10. We don’t judge, we discern

11. We learn to respond in Love, not react from the Ego

Dedication to truth, honesty, & overcoming laziness.

Constant updating or maintenance is needed as your life experiences may affect your opinion, beliefs, inner and outer goals. Needing or wanting to add, modify, or delete rules, inner or outer goals, beliefs, opinions etc…

Updating and Improving your Owners Manual/Personal Foundation

Below ↓is a mini course of the material. It’s more realistic that you could do.

The Mini Course

Understand, Realize and Know the below

ONLY YOU control your thoughts…

YOU create your inner world

YOU control your desires, intentions, beliefs; and your life

YOU can’t control the outer world but……

It’s how you respond from your your inner world to the outer world. So…..

….Your inside world controls the outside world.

Our inner world is where we reside and live. Your energy, ATTITUDE, attention, desires & intentions are yours to control.

Understand the power of your mind & your attitude.

Realize laziness and your ego are your main enemies.

1. Read Relentless, it is a good basic outlook on life and it’s mostly about basketball!

2. Read the 4 Agreements

3. Let Them

4. The Energy Bus

5. The 3 Questions

6. The Mastery of Love, and the

7. Ego folder

Most of the ↑books are short easy reads

E+P=O

“The E stands for events in your life, The P stands for perception and the stands for outcome. We can’t control the events in our life but we can control how we perceive them and our perception and response to the events determine our outcome.”

“The P can also stand for positive energy.”(attitude)

LOST LESSONS

Part 1 & Part 2: MASTER THE SELF

PART 1: POWER OF CONSCIOUS AWARENESS

PART 2: POWER OF SELF-RESPONSIBILITY

Part 3: MASTER YOUR LIFE - POWER UNLIMITED

Children should be taught at a very early age that whatever they do to another they are doing to themselves. That is the very first principle upon which to found their morality and character. If they are made to know that they hurt themselves when they hurt another physically, or by unkind words, and are made to know it as a part of Natural law, that knowledge will become habitual.

Part 1: Power of Conscious Awareness

Part one is subdivided into 2 parts….

i. STARTS WITH SELF-AWARENESS, ATTENTION & FOCUS

Being in the present moment, or the “here and now” means that we are aware and mindful of what is happening at this very moment. We are not distracted by ruminations on the past or worries about the future, but centered in the here and now. All of our attention is focused on the present moment. Living in the present moment. We have no control over the experience, any relationships, or the outside world. We do have control of our inner world. It’s our internal interpretation or perspective of the experience that results in our attitudes, opinions, and habits that form our behavior.

The Red Car Theory

While you’re driving to work every day, can you tell me how many red cars you saw? Until you decide to look for or at something, you aren’t aware of it or don’t realize it.

This is awareness, attention to the present and focus on a specific problem.

So after ego education if someone or something triggers an ego habit. An ego educated person if called out on it by someone or if they are halfway present should notice it and try to fix it? That’s my theory… plus ego education should help a person to look at excessive ego traits in potential partners…. Ignorance is no longer an excuse🤪

Being conscious, thinking with the soul/heart, and God’s energy of Love. Not the unconscious mind feelings /ego and body’s emotions... It’s how we respond not react.

ii. SELF-LOVE & KNOW YOURSELF

Part of self-love is wanting self-improvement

Everyone wants to be loved. But first, we must make ourselves lovable. We must prepare ourselves to be loved. We do this by becoming loving, self-disciplinedhuman beings. If we seek to be loved – if we expect to be loved.

• You’ve got to like and love yourself first…. Because love comes from within. What is your attitude to life? This goes hand in hand with…

• Know yourself.… What are your inner goals and outer goals? This is more about inner goals, but it’s about balance between the two, so include both. What rules won’t you break, which ones can you bend a little? Are there some things (beliefs, rules)you don’t need or need to add? Discipline. Character, integrity, honor, respect, and self-respect. Your character. What are your boundaries, deal breakers, passions, etc?… this is all part of your owner’s manual.

Self-Awareness of who you are… It starts with self-love and knowing who you are, and who you want to be. Love comes from within so you must first love yourself

1. YOU decide WHO you want to be(how you think, your attitude, what you say, how you act) and

2. YOU decide WHAT you want in life, your dreams/desires and goals,(inner & outer)

To find your way in this world you need only answer three questions…

1. “First, you must ask yourself: “Who am I?’ You will KNOW who you are when you see who you are not.

2. “Second, you must ask yourself: “What is real?’ You will KNOW what is real when you accept what is not real or see but feel or realize what is real.

3. “Third,” you must ask yourself: ‘What is love?’ You will KNOW love when you realize what love is not.”

Who you are is not your outer ego personality. It is who you are inside—your inner heart, your soul, or spirit

Know who you are: ONLY YOU control yourself, your inside world, not the outside world. Understand who you want to be. What are your desires, dreams, and inner and outer goals?

Learn to be relentless when and where it matters

It starts with Intentions/Thoughts, and Attitude based on the Goodness of Love. ONLY YOU decide what’s in your Owner’s Manual.

ONLY YOU control your thoughts

• YOU create your inner world

• YOU control your intentions, desires & beliefs

• YOU control your inner world

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We provide information to develop skills & skill sets in key areas to improve your personal foundation.

1… ↑Communication Skills = Understanding Normal Human Ego Behavior. ↑critical thinking skills

2… ↑Emotional IQ = Emotional Self-Control is Real Power. ↑self-discipline skills

3… ↑Relationships = Self-Love, Love, Respect, self-respect, Commitment, Courage (You will know love, when you realize what love is not.)

4… ↑SOLID FOUNDATION = Character = Code of Conduct, Integrity, Self-Respect/Respect, Self-Control, Self-Love, Moral Code

READ:

• Relentless

• 4 Agreements

• Let Them Theory

• Mastery of Love, and

• the folders, Start, Objectives, Owner’s Manual, Awareness, Ego, Love, and Emotions. (Optional but encouraged to read the other books in each folder.)

Understand what love is and isn’t. Make it a part of your core foundation. Define your beliefs about God? Work on defining, knowing your values, dreams, likes, dislikes, and define stuff like your morals, goals, etc… Understand your feelings and emotions. There’s a lot to unpack really understand and define who you are and who you want to be. Figure out what makes you tick.

Work on loving yourself, knowing & working on who you are and want to be.

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PART 2: POWER OF SELF-RESPONSIBILITY

MASTER YOUR EMOTIONS & LAZINESS, YOU MASTER YOURSELF

Self-Discipline and Self-Awareness of Emotions

RESPONSIBILITY

This is the start of mastering your ego as a lot of your emotions are ego based…

This course gives you information, tools & steps to acquire Emotional Intelligence(EI). Read and learn about ego behaviors, immature emotions, and what love is or isn’t. Learn how to update your owner’s manual, ↑communication skills, ↑awareness skills, and better insights on love & normal human ego behavior. This doesn’t happen overnight, you have to do the work…. You have to love yourself, know who you are, and who you want to be. Understanding your feelings is key to mastery.

Emotional Maturity: You will navigate life better only through practicing what you learn from this material and applying it in real life, only then can you achieve true emotional maturity. Emotional Maturity is when you stop wasting time convincing people to treat you correctly. Then you observe their choices, try to understand their character, and decide what or who you’re going to allow into your life.

We all have an opinion. This is not easy, learning not to say what you really feel in the heat of the moment, but this is reacting … you need to learn how to respond with emotional self-control. This takes great self-discipline.

Self-discipline develops from the foundation of love.

Love is the substance(desires,intentions) & Wisdom is the ability(intellect, the will) to use love as the form(perception) of all things, resulting in love-based actions.

We provide everyday tools if applied in your life will help you achieve your inner goals….

TAO POWER TOOLS

THE INNER SMILE

THE SIX HEALING SOUNDS

The Inner Smile and Six Healing Sounds are simple yet powerful practices. Transforming Negative Energy into Virtues: Opening the Heart

The Inner Smile and Six Healing Sounds are simple yet powerful practices that teach us how to relax and heal vital organs and transform negative emotions back into a rich source of energy.(positive virtues) They help open the heart center and connect us with unlimited universal love.

TOLTEC POWER TOOLS

Apply the 4 Agreements/Steps

1. Be Impeccable with your Word

2. Don’t take anything personally (Let Them Theory)

3. Don’t make assumptions, clarify, and ask questions

4. Always Try Your BEST - try, try try, again, practice makes perfect

#4 will be your most used and important agreement as you will fail often, especially in the beginning. And none of us is ever perfect. If you do the best you can in the moment you can be proud of yourself. You are only responsible for your 1/2 of any relationship. How they respond is on them. They say it takes 3 months of practice to create a new habit.

• Keep working on loving and knowing yourself

• Develop the needed skills & skillsets

Character or a solid foundation is key…. Understand and apply these first 2 parts, and you will excel, in your personal and professional life. We continue our work, adopt new beliefs, and practice applying them to our lives…>into new habits. If you master your awareness, ego, love and you master life. Not sure how many of us become a master but a warrior, yes….

YOU DO IT WITH BALANCE & YOU BECOME BULLETPROOF

Laziness isn’t allowed, you have to do the work

Knowledge—and all of the invisible qualities of Mind—must be earned, as all things of the material world must also be earned. There is no substitute for you without great effort. The greater the effort, the greater the accomplishment.

Love is the foundation of the universe. There is no selfishness in love. The desire to give must be without motive other than the desire to give.

Knowledge—and all of the invisible qualities of Mind—must be earned, as all things of the material world must also be earned. There is no substitute for to you without great effort. The greater the effort, the greater the accomplishment.

This universe of love is a universe of law, for love is law. He who works with the law of love is working with the universe, and the universe is working with him. Love is the foundation of the universe. There is no selfishness in love. The desire to give must be without motive other than the desire to give.

Love is the foundation of the universe. There is no selfishness in love. The desire to give must be without motive other than the desire to give.

Make love the foundation of your character. Understanding what Love is and isn’t, is key to you becoming a Master of Yourself.

Part of Loving yourself is having a desire for self-improvement and to BECOME RENTLESS in LIFE….

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If you decide to go deeper into the Rabbit Hole….

IT CONTINUES WITH ATTENTION - AWARENESS

It’s easy to see the ego in everyone but yourself, but if you want to be the best you, this is a must-have quality.

It’s easy to see the ego in others, but can you see it in yourself & then minimize it? For some people, this is an almost impossible task for them to look at their own weaknesses and faults and then to do something about them.

Make a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. Acquired awareness & knowledge of ego’s insanity.

This is where you acquire the desire to improve yourself, to truly be the best you can, in your inner world. Self-love is self-respect the desire to improve yourself. To do that, you have to master your ego. Master self Love. Master who you are and what you want. Look at all your faults and work on fixing them….

This really begins with PART 2 because if you look at it. It’s the ego saying you’re not getting your way…It’s why we get angry…. MASTER YOUR EGO

“To become a master of our emotions, thoughts, feelings and our ego” (which is how we master our energy, which is how we master our environment, which is how we master our destiny.) ~ 4 Agreements

• So many people don’t know who they are

• Many don’t know the power they have to become whoever they want to be

• Your real power is unlimited….

Master your inside world is how you Master the outside world

Your inside world controls the outside world. It isn’t what happens, or what the other person says or does. It’s how you respond from your inner world or mind.

• How do we achieve his? Mostly due to #11. Willpower, & desire and the ability to put it all together. This takes a great mental and soul commitment to accomplish.

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Fully Update Your Owner’s Manual & Control Your Inner World. Finish by applying all 12 steps into you life

The LOST LESSONS

PART 3: MASTER YOUR LIFE

Implement All 12 Power Unlimited Agreements/Steps

DISCIPLINE PILLARS: (1-6)

1. KNOW YOURSELF & SELF-LOVE

2. Be Impeccable with your Word

3. Don’t take anything personally (The Let Them Theory is a good companion book for this 3rd step or Agreement)

4. Don’t make assumptions, clarify, ask questions

5. Always Try Your BEST - try, try try, practice makes perfection.

6. Listen, Learn how to really listen…But be Skeptical: Develop critical thinking skills… BELIEFS: be open to change and updating your operating software. The ability to look at your actions and beliefs. Being stubborn or rigid is more prone to breaking. Being flexible but true to your core values lets you bend but not break. (these 6 steps or agreements are how you master your emotions or yourself.)

MIND & HEART PILLARS: LOVE AS THE MAIN MATERIAL OF YOUR FOUNDATION

7. LOVE: prayer, faith, & hope. It must start with God & self-love. Love comes from within. These simple applications can make a world of difference in the quality of life we will experience. Aligning our mind or will with our God’s will & mind. One needs to have a belief in the afterlife. Know that we are all energy beings only temporarily in a human body, we don’t die, we are a part of God’s eternal energy.

PERSONAL PILLARS: (8-12)

8. CHARACTER: honor, respect/self-respect, honesty, & integrity. This is part of updating your owner’s manual, really this whole course is. But this is the core of who you are. How are you going to live? With honor, respect, values, and integrity. Live life as an ethical, loving human. Having and using your moral compass. Taking personal inventory and when we are wrong promptly admit it (accountability)Acting in awareness, consciously, not unconsciously. Virtue does not imply moral superiority, it implies authenticity and innate power. Our innate power arises from within our authentic (original) self and expresses itself in function. It’s about NOT being lazy and ALL about self-discipline and PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY. THE COURAGE TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT

9. OPEN HEART: that is always the end goal, to always get back to an open heart, always forgive, not to judge or hold a grudge.

10. CHOICE: to start every thought & intention with LOVE and goodness, it’s about your energy or ATTITUDE. Merge your analytical or thinking mind with the unseen spiritual energy of love from your inner heart or soul. LIFE IS ATTITUDE - LOVE IS A CHOICE - LIVE LOVE, BE LOVE

11. BALANCE: Willpower, desire and the ability to put it all together. This takes a great mental and soul commitment to accomplish. The further you go down the rabbit hole you will need to find a healthy balance between the seen/material world and God’s unseen/spiritual world. You must have the awareness and the desire to improve yourself…

12.FUN: ALWAYS HAVE FUN(all 12 steps or agreements are how you master your life)

Do a nightly review of your day, of your intentions, words, action. Rate how you did. Have a plan for how to do better the next day. Repeat…..

It’s easy to see the ego in others, but can you see it in yourself & then try to minimize it?

For some people, this is an almost impossible task for them to look at their own weaknesses and faults and then to do something about it. This is where you somehow acquire the desire to improve yourself, to truly be the best you can, in your inner world. To do that, you have to master your ego.

This really begins with PART 1 & 2 because if you look at it. It’s why we get angry. It’s the ego saying you’re not getting your way…

DEDICATION TO THE TRUTH

THE LAST TOOL of discipline or technique of dealing with the pain of problem-solving, which must continually be employed if our lives are to be healthy and our spirits are to grow, is dedication to the truth.

Superficially, this should be obvious. For truth is reality.

That which is false is unreal. The more clearly we see the reality of the world, the better equipped we are to deal with the world.

The less clearly we see the reality of the world – the more our minds are befuddled by falsehood, misperceptions, and illusions – the less able we will be to determine correct courses of action and make wise decisions. Reality often is based on God’s unseen world and the truth of God’s love.

Not only Updating our owners manual but also our Map of reality.

Our view of reality is like a map with which to negotiate the terrain of life. This is where if you choose to go further down the rabbit hole. Going further then just about your character. You ask questions like, Am I the body, do I live forever, is this really the truth? Who am I really? This is where you decide if your initial map is what you believe in. Do you want change things, add or delete certain aspects? What is life about, why am I here, what is my purpose?

If the map is true and accurate, we will generally know where we are, and if we have decided where we want to go, we will generally know how to get there. If the map is false and inaccurate, we will generally be lost. While this is obvious, it is something that most people to a greater or lesser degree choose to ignore. Many get busy or sidetracked with the outside worlds, forget or they ignore it because our route to reality is not easy.

Being the Master of your inside world is how you Master the outside world

You must have the awareness and the desire to do the above

This is a big commitment. Don’t be lazy…the problem is, you have to do the work, this isn’t easy.

Continue you work on parts 1 & 2. You decide to completely Master the Ego, all your faults, Love and Awareness. If you can do this you will be a true winner of yourself and a MASTER OF YOUR LIFE. Read the rest of the material and books, if needed…

Your inside world controls the outside world. It isn’t what happens, or what the other person says or does. It’s how you respond from your inner world or mind.

END OF COURSE

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MISC

BALANCE OF LOVE: The entirety of the universe is a continuing expression of the Love principle, which God is. It is a ceaseless, endless continuity of giving and regiving. Man’s life is given over to the purpose of learning how to give and regive EQUALLY which is THE LAW OF BALANCE….. God is LOVE. The foundation of love is BALANCE. The universe is GOD. So that means the universe is also LOVE

BALANCE IN POLARITY: God’s creations are all based on energy and giving, the creation of love. Love is energy. There is no selfishness in love. Desire to give must be without motive other than the desire to give. God’s energy is about balance. Look at nature. Every created thing in this universe is SELF-created and that SELF within each creating thing is GOD. The law respecting the giving principle of LOVE is that what one gives, he always has whether or not he is regiven…. but he who gives is regiven in kind, is THE LAW OF BALANCE. If it is unbalanced it becomes under THE LAW OF CAUSE & EFFECT. Unbalanced exchanges show the effects of the imbalance.

The one universal law (LAW OF BALANCE) demands that all transactions in Nature must bebalanced and equal in their interchange.

Positive Virtues

The Energetic Essence of Our Positive Emotions

The virtues are our natural qualities; they are inherent in everyone. They do not have to be created in us; they need only to be uncovered, exercised, and nourished. This is the Taoist approach.

The positive energies of love, kindness, gentleness, respect, and honesty; this is the highest Chi Kung practice. With these energies adept & can counteract all kinds of evil. In the Tao, we refer to the positive emotions as the virtues.

Taoists revere compassion as the highest form of virtue because its basis is empathy, not sympathy, and it elevates the consciousness beyond human weakness. With compassion, one can love unconditionally and thereby accept the world on its terms without suffering.

With compassion, we can love unconditionally.

Our virtues have the nature of wisdom and love. They are wise because they reflect our interdependence with the Tao, with nature, with all life, and with the different parts of our own body; we cannot exhibit virtues except about another. The virtues are also wise in that they express love, the attitude that strengthens the positive bonds connecting everything in the universe. Thus the virtues promote life, health, and harmony. Cultivating the virtues is the basis of spiritual development in the Tao. We are born with these qualities in abundance.

The Spiritual Universe

We were all taught or automatically Know a lot of the above. But how much we retain in life varies greatly between individuals. Personalities, life experiences, etc.. all figure into why it varies so much. Attitude, IMHO is a major factor.

Hopefully you are one of the ones who naturally Knows and automatically do the above…..

BALANCE OF LOVE: The entirety of the universe is a continuing expression of the Love principle, which God is. It is a ceaseless, endless continuity of giving and regiving. Man’s life is given over to the purpose of learning how to give and regive EQUALLY which is THE LAW OF BALANCE….. God is LOVE. The foundation of love is BALANCE. The universe is GOD. Which means the universe is also LOVE

BALANCE IN POLARITY

God’s creations are all based on energy and giving, the creation of love. Love is energy. There is no selfishness in love. Desire to give must be without motive other than the desire to give. God’s energy is about balance. Look at nature.

Every created thing in this universe is SELF-created and that SELF within each creating thing is GOD. The law respecting the giving principle of LOVE is that what one gives, he always has whether or not he is regiven…. but he who gives is regiven in kind, is THE LAW OF BALANCE. If it is unbalanced it comes under THE LAW OF CAUSE & EFFECT. Unbalanced exchanges show the effects of the imbalance.

The one universal law (LAW OF BALANCE) demands that all transactions in Nature must bebalanced and equal in their interchange.

This universe of love is a universe of law, for love is law. He who works with the law of love is working with the universe, and the universe is working with him.

…Love is the foundation of the universe. There is no selfishness in love. The desire to give must be without motive other than the desire to give.

The Law of Love should be the foundation of your owner’s manual. This is why your foundation is so important. It all starts with each person, their character, their attitudes, thoughts, intentions/desires, actions, and whether they are balanced more on love or the ego.

Since love comes from within, if your foundation doesn’t have a good base how can you freely give love and receive love? It starts with love and ends with love. Love is energy, Love is a choice. Love is an action, not a feeling. Everything interconnects, is entangled, and points back to you.

It all starts and ends with YOU.

We are the only ones who can take care of our own problems, for we are the only ones who bring them into being.

LIFE IS CHOICE, LIFE IS ATTITUDE, LIFE IS LOVE

There are not just 1 or 2 main parts but many intertangled parts in life.

Your energy, attitude, attention, and intentions are yours to control. You decide the frequency or tone of your actions. It all begins with your intention, whether it’s rooted in love or fear, emanating from the heart or the ego. Free will grants us the freedom to choose.

It’s NOT about what happens in your outer world. Your inner world is what controls your outer world and events. It’s about how you respond to the outer world, from your inner world. Only YOU control your inside world…

●It all starts with the intention, your attitude

●Your desire(s) - one of balance in Love or Fear

CHOICE/ATTITUDE of LOVE

Refuse to walk blindly in life. See what is true and not what you prefer to see!

Always check the integrity of your actions. Is this response fair? Am I being respectful? Would I want to be treated this way? Respect makes it possible to see the other person’s opinion. It makes it possible to know the truth of their movie or dream—self-respect and respect for others.

You are the one in charge of your thoughts and your movie. You are the commander in chief, the president of you. Are you a dictator? Selfish? Me, Me, Me? Always the victim?

Our power is in our intent, our spirit. We are connected with everything and we affect everything through our intent.

• Make out your own owner’s manual and read the material about Love.

• Incorporate what you want from the power pillars and tools into your owner’s manual and your life.

• Life isn’t about religion, it’s the energy that runs us, life is spiritual energy.

“You were born an artist, and your art is the expression of your spirit; it’s the expression of that force that you are. You know how powerful you are, and that power is real. You know what you learned, and you know that not all your knowledge is real. The truth is happening right in front of you. To experience life is to experience truth. To see the truth makes a huge difference in your world; to become the truth is the real goal because that is the real you. What is not the truth is not important.

Your desire for the truth, and your love for the truth, is what is important, and that is the real teaching?” ~The 5th Agreement

When we are young we often resent advice. And even when we seek it—at any age—we seldom take it. We go on our own blundering way, and have to take the consequences of our mistakes. Actually we are the only ones who can take care of our own problems, for we are the only ones who bring them into being. No matter what our problems are or may be, we are the only ones who know their cause. We may even forget all of the issues that gave birth to them.

• Transform yourself from a purely Sense-dominated man to a mind-knowing man.

• The key to transformation is Awareness of Knowledge; for ignorance, alone, keeps man imprisoned within his body.

• Love, Truthfulness, Honesty, Loyalty, Kindness all these Soul qualities give you freedom.

It's always a matter of how the ego's power controls each individual—many degrees of control which is variable according to the person(or personality) and their core foundation.

A Few Sample Questions↓

Question: Does it matter more what the other person does or more on what you do in any conversation or interaction? Explain

Answer

It's more my response or how I react to the outside world.. I can't control anyone else or any outside events that are happening. I only control my world, which is my inner world. I am only responsible for my 1/2 of the relationship. They are responsible for how they react to my words or actions, or their 1/2 of the relationship.

Question: Does the ego usually like to forgive?

Answer

No

Question:

1. Name at least one emotional reaction(feelings) you get when your ego kicks in during a conversation.

2. Plus name one thing you can do to not to overreact or get upset.

3. How can 4 agreements help control your emotional reaction?

Answer

1. Feel flushed, frustrated, and start getting mad or upset. Thoughts orvfeelings of like I'm being attacked, I get defensive, etc… they are wrong, I’m right. My way or the highway.

2. Pause and don't say anything. Deep breaths…. Anything they relate to personally that they state may help them control their emotions.

3. This is where the 2nd and 3rd Agreement comes into play and lets you understand and how to respond correctly or if possible to just let it slide as you see it’s their ego, their dream and has no bearing on you. You are just a secondary character in their movie. Plus you no longer assume, ask questions when possible to clarify, or chalk it up to their ego dream world. Yet you show respect to their opinion or ego dream.

Question: Is the ego objective, and agreeable to compromise? Explain

Answer

No because its main objective is to always defend your personal ego beliefs or attitude at the time. To defend that you are the right one. It doesn't like to see anyone else's view or opinion. It's rigid and hates compromise, unless it's forced into it.

It may agree to compromise but only after as much defensive action that it can muster up.

Question: Is the ego more a conscious or more an automatic unconscious reaction?

Answer

Unconscious automatic reaction

Question: Where do your original unconscious beliefs come from?

Answer

Parents, teachers, church, society, social inputs. From how you were raised, observations, events, and beliefs instilled from when you were growing up.

Question: Do your attitudes or beliefs affect how you see other people or events that happen?

It is your attitude or beliefs, that make up your perception. Perception rules our actions.

Question: Is your perception always constant?

Answer

No it changes according to your choice of your current attitude or your beliefs at the present moment.

Question: in your own words explain what perception is.

Answer

perception: your thought process or interpretation of the physical experience and your bodies emotional response. Our primary attention is on survival in the physical world, and on protecting your ego, your beliefs and perceptions. Mind consists of memory, perception and imagination. [our feelings come from within and reside in the subconscious.] Perception is also your Attitude or beliefs.

The world of perception, on the other hand, is the world of time, of change, of beginnings and endings. It is based on interpretation, not on facts. It is the world of birth and death, founded on the belief in scarcity, loss, separation and death. It is learned rather than given, selective in its perceptual emphases, unstable in its functioning, and inaccurate in its interpretations.

Perception rules our actions.It is essential it be kept in mind that all perception still is upside down until its purpose has been understood. Perception does not seem to be a means. And it is this that makes it hard to grasp the whole extent to which it must depend on what you see it for. Perception seems to teach you what you see. Yet it but witnesses to what you taught. It is the outward picture of a wish; an image that you wanted to be true. It is the means to make your wish come true. It gives the eyes with which you look on it, the hands that feel it, and the ears with which you listen to the sounds it makes. It proves its own reality to you. And thus does his perception serve his wish by giving it appearances of truth. Yet can perception serve another goal. It is not bound to specialness but by your choice. And it is given you to make a different choice, and use perception for a different purpose. And what you see will serve that purpose well, and prove its own reality to you.

The world of perception, however, is made by the belief in opposites and separate wills, in perpetual conflict with each other and with God. What perception sees and hears appears to be real because it permits into awareness only what conforms to the wishes of the perceiver. This leads to a world of illusions, a world which needs constant defense precisely because it is not real.

When you have been caught in the world of perception you are caught in a dream. You cannot escape without help, because everything your senses show merely witnesses to the reality of the dream.

Projection makes perception. The world you see is what you gave it, nothing more than that. But though it is no more than that, it is not less. Therefore, to you it is important. It is the witness to your state of mind, the outside picture of an inward condition. As a man thinketh, so does he perceive. Therefore, seek not to change the world, but choose to change your mind about the world.Perception is a function of the body, and therefore represents a limit on awareness.

Perception sees through the body’s eyes and hears through the body’s ears. It evokes the limited responses which the body makes. The body appears to be largely self-motivated and independent, yet it actually responds only to the intentions of the mind. If the mind wants to use it for attack in any form, he does.

Perception is a choice of what you want yourself to be; the world you want to live in, and the state in which you think your mind will be content and satisfied. It chooses where you think your safety lies, at your decision. It reveals yourself to you as you would have you be. And always is it faithful to your purpose, from which it never separates, nor gives the slightest witness unto anything the purpose in your mind upholdeth not. Perception is a part of what it is your purpose to behold, for means and end are never separate. And thus you learn what seems to have a life apart has none. You see what you believe is there, and you believe it there because you want it there. Perception has no other law than this.

Perception is a result and not a cause. And that is why order of difficulty in miracles is meaningless. Everything looked upon with vision is healed and holy. Nothing perceived without it means anything. And where there is no meaning, there is chaos. Perception is a choice and not a fact. But on this choice depends far more than you may realize as yet. For on the voice you choose to hear, and on the sights you choose to see, depends entirely your whole belief in what you are. Perception is a witness but to this, and never to reality.

You have been told not to make error real, and the way to do this is very simple. If you want to believe in error, you would have to make it real because it is not true. But truth is real in its own right, and to believe in truth you do not have to do anything. Understand that you do not respond to anything directly, but to your interpretation of it. Your interpretation thus becomes the justification for the response. That is why analyzing the motives of others is hazardous to you. If you decide that someone is really trying to attack you or desert you or enslave you, you will respond as if he had actually done so, having made his error real to you. To interpret error is to give it power, and having done this you will overlook truth.

Question: Name 2 things the ego thought system automatically does on a daily basis.

Answers

A system that produces many of my negative emotions, and feelings.

A system of judgment and one of I’m right & you’re wrong. To the ego, it is kind and right and good to point out errors and “correct” them. The ego analyzes, it judges, it protects itself, your selfish ego, not the real you.

A system of self-protection always ready to attack and defend MY EGO selfish actions

System of fear and often hate, or unforgiveness.

A system of scarcity and always wanting more

A system of pride and often arrogance.

A system of specialness, I'm smart you're not.

A system of guilt.

A system of trying to control the outside world.

The ego thought system cannot tolerate release from the past, and although the past is over, the ego tries to preserve its image by responding as if it were present. It always brings up the past offenses by other people

Question: Name two components of the legal system things the ego defense system does when it judges people.

Answers

Defends your ego belief system

The ego is the accuser, the police, the prosecution, the judge and the jury. It……

Accuses, attacks

Prosecutes

Convicts and

Sentences ….. people

Question: Does the ego seek peace? Explain your answer.

Answer

No, not usually, in the ego world of scarcity, love has no meaning and peace is impossible…

… plus most of the above answers

Question: Explain the 2nd agreement (Don’t take anything personally.) in your words. And how this figures in how you can become bulletproof to people's actions and their opinions.

Answer

We take everything personally when our personal importance leads us to make the assumption that whatever happens is because of us, which is why we continue to hurt each other and brood about what we call injustice.

Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream or movie. It’s their Ego talking… Stop being offended. (Let go of your pride & reputation.)

When you truly understand this, you will not need to blame, attack nor defend yourself. That means even if you make a mistake, and other people react and judge, it’s nothing personal. How they react to you is their problem not yours. But how you react or respond to them is on you and your self control of your emotions.

You become immune or bulletproof to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering. When somebody talks about you, they are talking about a secondary character in their story who represents you; they are talking about an image they create for you.

That image has nothing to do with you; it’s just a projection of that person’s dream, movie, or story. If you take it personally, if you agree and believe what others say, their story becomes a part of your story.

With that immunity, we realize they act from their personal ego dream and interpretation. Knowing their words can’t hurt you. When you realize that they live in their dream movie. Once you understand that all humans live in their world, in their own movies, in their own dreams, the second agreement is pure common sense.

A projection of forgetting, not a villain to destroy, but a distortion to dissolve.

When consciousness fell asleep to its own light, it needed contrast to remember what it was. “Evil” was that contrast. The shadow on the wall that only exists because the light is on.

But look closer.

Flip the word EVIL, it spells LIVE.

The inversion was always the clue.

To live unconsciously is to believe in evil.

To live awakened is to see that both shadow and light are part of the same current, the same Source exploring itself.

There is no devil in the dark. Only light learning how to dance without fear.

Reflection doesn’t lie, it just shows where light hasn’t been seen yet.

~ The Power Within

Main Objective:

Awareness of the Ego and the 4 Agreements

Giving you awareness of these 3 topics

1. Understanding only you control your world. Which is the inside world of your mind. Your beliefs, emotions, feelings, and choices. Choices of ego fear, and unforgiveness or truth and love? The outside world doesn’t matter. It only matters how you respond from your inside world.

2. Understanding the ego human behavior you can now see and understand that they live in their personal ego dream world or movie. To understand basic human ego behavior, and see it in others. To see how the ego tries to control their outside world with emotions of anger, conflict, accusing, blaming, attacking, judging, I’m right you’re wrong, I’m special, you are not, etc..

3. Emotional IQ is another subject you can’t help people achieve unless they want to do it themselves. But we rarely even talk about it, or even less in giving you information or the tools to help you improve your emotional intelligence.

4. The 4 Agreements and companion lessons, gives you easy explanations and everyday tools to implement your awareness and understanding of the basic human nature and the ego thought system and emotional intelligence.

   Assignment:

   Read the 4 Agreements book, Mastery of Love book and Ego section

   Understand ONLY YOU control your real world, the inner world of your mind

   See Owners Manual section read and take your time to figure out who you are and want to be. Focus more on the inner values and characteristics you want to develop and have.This is where you make sure you know what you want, who you are, and who you want to be. Integrity, honor, self-respect. Likes, dislikes, inner goals, and outer goals, etc…

   Read God’s Knowledge Thought System in the Knowledge section

   Now there is no excuse of ignorance

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The rest is up to you. It's your choice! Are you ready to learn more about being both the teacher and the student. Do you want real power? This not for the lazy person. This is where you must have the want & willpower to improve your emotional intelligence.

Laziness is the original sin.

PART II

Your next choice takes the willingness & willpower to improve emotional self-control …

1. By practicing self-discipline, responsibility and implementing the 4 Agreements you can effectively improve communication skills. (along with developing self-love, knowing who you really are and what you want, improving your foundation, or updating your owner's manual)

2. You can now brush off their words or actions because you now have knowledge of their personal ego’s control. You get angry or upset less often, and you can now respect their ego dream or movie. You see how the ego only protects your ego personality, not the real you, your inner heart or soul. You have the everyday tools to communicate more effectively and deal with their ego opinion and any possible conflicts. You have the improved ability to control your emotional reactions and now you respond in the present instead of reacting. You are not trying to control them or any other outside event or interaction. This is where you pull it it all together with this new knowledge of these 3 key areas. This gives you a great advantage in your personal and business life.

3. You don’t hate or judge them anymore. You still don’t have to like them or even associate with them if possible.(discernment) You now understand it’s God’s role to judge your brothers and sisters, not you….

….you become Bulletproof

Use the 4th Agreement… practice, repeat, practice, repeat….

…you become Relentless

Assignment:

A… Read the Awareness & Emotions section

B… Read the Love section, Read the 5th Agreement and Belief section

You are a Warrior and a Seer

Implementing the 4 Agreements is the start of awareness. Seeing how the ego controls them. You understand its their ego movie, they are the creator, producer and star, it has nothing to do with you, it’s their image of you. Look for the signs and their real intention behind their words. By being the observer of your thoughts and emotions. By not automatically reacting, getting frustrated or mad, saying or doing something dumb. You wait to respond with wisdom or choose to say nothing or to agree. Now many people won’t say anything because they don’t want to have a conflict or other reasons why they don’t reply. (That’s not awareness.)

To what degree and how much are you balanced more to the selfishness of the ego fear thoughts or more to Gods thoughts of truth and goodness of love? It’s easy to see it in others but what about you?

Your 3rd choice is one of unlearning, relearning, a total commitment of prayer, faith, & love

1. Understanding that each of us are all a ball of eternal energy, just using a temporary body while here on earth. That we are all a part of Gods eternal energy of Love. You understand fully that we are not separate from God or from each other. One truth, one mind, one perception. We do not die just the temporary body dies, the true you is eternal energy.

2. That the ego controls most of us while we are temporarily in this human body.

3. That we each must awaken from the ego dream. While we can’t entirely delete the ego, we must listen to our true inner self or soul and that we have a choice to unlearn and minimize the ego. Here you must add the 5th agreement, change some of your beliefs, understanding what love really is, and learn to use God’s Knowledge Thought System of Love. To unify your mind and vision with God’s eternal energy.

The choice not to hate them, to forgive, as we all are all part of God’s energy and we all use the Ego Thought System. It’s just varies to the degree in its control over each person. With free will, and the ego's thought system we choose to distort God’s energy of truth and love. Completely merging your mind with your inner heart or soul or with Gods mind. Because most of us are not fully awake, still living in the ego dream, and most of us forget or are unaware of God’s Love/Knowledge Thought System of …

… One mind, One truth, and One perception.

We are just temporarily using the body as a teaching tool for growing our souls.

1. We are truly eternal energy beings and are also here to enjoy and have fun that the body provides from its 5 senses.

   To become Relentless in both life or love

   Assignment:

   A… Read The Game, Relationship, Knowledge sections, & any other books mentioned.

   Around 90% of all people don’t live in the present or with complete awareness of who they are and that they are the only one in control of their world. They still let the ego control them. If you complete this 3rd step. Congratulations …..

   …You are a Master of Intent or Love

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Everyone has an opinion on what is wrong with society, the system, etc. It's not a political or religious issue. It's about freedom, free will, perceptions, and the choice between fear and love.

Lack of Balance

Personal Responsibility

Whether it's schools, churches, or parents, there’s a lack of common-sense values, ethics, and personal responsibility. The balance of life, taken too far either way, isn't good.

If you listen to Jesus ' parables he is talking about the ego. He speaks of having tolerance, respect, honor, self-respect, self-responsibility, and an attitude of love. We say the devil made me do it or it's the devil's fault. No, the real devil is your selfish ego beliefs. While Jesus died for your sins it doesn't mean you will be guaranteed a higher level of heaven if you still are a selfish butthead. We are here to have fun and to grow our souls, to learn.

Churches, schools, and most parents don't do a good job of instilling or teaching their children personal responsibility, how to minimize the ego, and think with God's love thought system. Most of us just talk around it, some talk a little, but not nearly enough. We can't delete the ego but we can minimize it. Our current mainstream system actually encourages the ego thought system. Society encourages selfishness and the me-me-me attitudes. Modern fear is more physiological than physical. A large portion of our society has become out of balance. Encouraging extremism, discord, attacking free speech, individual rights, and even violence. It must start with each person and as parents at least to have the awareness, and to also teach this message.

We aren't teaching our kids or ourselves the truth. We are all part of God's eternal energy system and the ego is the real enemy we need to work on while temporarily here in this body.

We need to break the cycle

Empathize awareness of the ego and in minimizing the ego. Making sure we instill the character of the child with the attributes of integrity, respect, honor, and love. Teach them to think from the heart or soul with God's energy of love. Listening to your feelings about what each of us is and wants, the energy of love. Responsibility, back to the basics, the Golden Rule… Instill in them that we are not really the body but a part of God's eternal energy. The universe is spiritual. Everything and all of us is part of the eternal energy of God. Making sure they understand it isn't the outside world's fault of what happens to us. We can't control the outer world or other people. No matter how much we try. We only control our world which is the inner world, or mind, our intentions, beliefs, attitude or our energy. It's how you react or respond from your inside world to the outside world events and people or relationships, that determines your world.

God's thought system is about inclusiveness, (not extremism)but one of values, ethics, balance, tolerance, and based on one truth, one perception of his eternal energy of love. The BASICS: Right from wrong. We are all a part of God's energy and want to love and be loved..… The Golden Rule.

We might have been taught this, but the ego is strong, for each person, the ego control varies. Each of us as an individual must have the desire to always seek the truth. Only you can change how your Ego thoughts, attitude, and beliefs, to God's thought system of love. You have to look in the mirror and decide who you are and really want to be in this life. It is still up to the individual to have the desire or want to learn it but if we can at least make our kids and us adults aware that the ego is a thought system and it can be controlled, we have a chance. Teaching them personal responsibility, the basics of love, and balance.

Attitudes, or actions based on LOVE or goodness are always the how to see who someone really is. Take COVID, extreme FEAR was the basic message that's how one could tell something wasn't right. Blown out of proportion to the real threat, then extreme measures were mandated, etc…

Not encouraging extremism, or teaching preferential treatment of silly causes, organizations, or anybody.

The material presented here is universal, most if from the old cultures like Taoism and the Toltecs. The 4 Agreements give you everyday tools and a simplified explanation of the theory behind the tools. Something none of the religions or anyone else has provided you with. Simple Everyday Tools that let you act and live with God's love thought system, while still in this very materialistic self-centered world. The problem is that you have to have the willpower to use them. Your choice, as we all have free will. It is not religious in nature but spiritual and more of a lifestyle than anything, if learned and implemented in your life.

Finally, teach concepts, not subjects

Build it around these Core Concepts:

God

Family

Awareness

Honesty/Integrity/Honor

Self-Responsibility

Teach your children these concepts from the earliest age. Have them run through the curriculum until the final day. Base your entire educational model upon them. Birth all instruction deep within them.

LIFE is God's Energy of LOVE

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. Love is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love; but the greatest of these is love…..Love never fails.

Love is not given.

Love cannot be taken away.

Love is not a commodity; it cannot be bought or sold.

Love does not come from outside.

Love is not a state; states come and go.

Love is not an excited nervous system, a peak experience, a wonderful feeling.

Even the most volcanic feelings are temporary. And even the most sincere promises can crumble. And even the most beautiful dreams can die, for this existence is without ground, and you have always known.

Love is synonymous with Presence, a heart open to the Infinite.

Love is there in the breath, this simple feeling of being alive and awake.

Love is spacious; a great room, your unlimited capacity for thought and feeling.

Love is yours, and you cannot lose it.

If you can lose it, it was never love, but desire, and promises, and futures, and the urge to possess, and be possessed, and forget death and the groundlessness of things, and live in blissful unawareness. Yet love is there even in the loss of desire.

And the heart can remain open, even as the world cracks. Yes, even when love is lost, there is love! Love is this astonishing intimacy you feel.

This transparency. The stateless state. Home.

This wonder. This readiness. The present moment, naked. The part of you that cannot be crucified.

Do not wait for love, then. Do not beg for it.

Do not make yourself small for it.

Do not manipulate yourself, belittle yourself.

Do not destroy others to win it.

Do not make it into something 'lost'. But know it.

And remember:

You are worthy. You are large. You are a beast of the wild, a supernova. Your heart beats as One with all the other hearts. Connected, and longing to connect. So you cannot be lonely, when you are in yourself. And your aloneness is majestic. And your longing is miraculous. Let your dreams of love burn; feel the fire.

You only ever wanted to fall in love with your own heart.~ Jeff Foster

“In the end, only three things matter: how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you.”

― Buddha

This material is from other authors

We do not claim copyright of any of their material. The Toltec books are from Don Miguel Ruiz. Other authors' copyrighted works is also quoted for teaching purposes only. We have links and encourage you to buy and read the full books to fully understand their story and message.. If we do not have them listed then let us know as we used many sources and may not have all of them listed. This is not an infringement of their copyright, used for learning purposes only. A little is mine like the owners manual but even then it still the four agreements and other Toltec books and other books are the main tools and messages used. So please buy and read their books. The 5 Agreements are the main tools used in this educational format. We added some articles to help explain the concepts for a hopefully better understanding of the ego and the steps needed to improve your emotional intelligence. We have expanded lessons to expand on the Toltec book on love, adding excerpts from other books and authors listed. We tried to put and merge the authors material together in what I hope is an improved format for better teaching and comprehensive understanding of the main teaching objectives. They use different words and ways used to explain the same subject matter.

• Relentless

• The Four Agreements - website

• The 5th Agreement

• “Lost Lesson” notes

• The Untethered Soul

• The Mastery of Love

• Love is a Decision

• The Road Less Travelled

• Paul Selig

• A Course in Miracles

Read Relentless

Other Toltec books

Course outline

Main Objective: PART I

Awareness of the Ego and the 4 Agreements

Giving you awareness of these 3 topics

1. Understanding only you control your world. Which is the inside world of your mind. Your beliefs, emotions, feelings, and choices. Choices of ego fear, and unforgiveness or truth and love? The outside world doesn’t matter. It only matters how you respond from your inside world.

2. Understanding the ego human behavior you can now see and understand that they live in their personal ego dream world or movie. To understand basic human ego behavior, and see it in others. To see how the ego tries to control their outside world with emotions of anger, conflict, accusing, blaming, attacking, judging, I’m right you’re wrong, I’m special, you are not, etc..

3. The 4 Agreements and companion lessons, gives you easy explanations and everyday tools to implement your awareness and understanding of the basic human nature and the ego thought system.

Assignment:

Read Relentless

Read the 4 Agreements book, Mastery of Love book and Ego section

Understand ONLY YOU control your real world, the inner world of your mind

See Owners Manual section read and take your time to figure out who you are and want to be. Focus more on the inner values and characteristics you want to develop and have.This is where you make sure you know what you want, who you are, and who you want to be. Integrity, honor, self-respect. Likes, dislikes, inner goals, and outer goals, etc…

Read God’s Knowledge Thought System in the Knowledge section

Now there is no excuse of ignorance or lack of awareness

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The rest is up to you. It’s your choice! Are you ready to learn more about being both the teacher and the student. Do you want real power? This not for the lazy person. This is where you must have the want & willpower to improve your emotional intelligence.

Laziness is the original sin

PART II

Your next choice takes the willingness & willpower to improve emotional self-control …

1. By practicing self-discipline, responsibility and implementing the 4 Agreements you can effectively improve communication skills. (along with developing self-love, knowing who you really are and what you want, improving your foundation, or updating your owner’s manual)

2. You can now brush off their words or actions because you now have knowledge of their personal ego’s control. You get angry or upset less often, and you can now respect their ego dream or movie. You see how the ego only protects your ego personality, not the real you, your inner heart or soul. You have the everyday tools to communicate more effectively and deal with their ego opinion and any possible conflicts. You have the improved ability to control your emotional reactions and now you respond in the present instead of reacting. You are not trying to control them or any other outside event or interaction. This is where you pull it it all together with this new knowledge of these 3 key areas. This gives you a great advantage in your personal and business life.

3. You don’t hate or judge them anymore. You still don’t have to like them or even associate with them if possible.(discernment) You now understand it’s God’s role to judge your brothers and sisters, not you….

….you become Bulletproof

Use the 4th Agreement… practice, repeat, practice, repeat….

…you become Relentless

Assignment:

A… Read the Awareness & Emotions section

B… Read the Love section, Read the 5th Agreement and Belief section

Implementing the 4 Agreements is the start of awareness. Seeing how the ego controls them. You understand its their ego movie, they are the creator, producer and star, it has nothing to do with you, it’s their image of you. Look for the signs and their real intention behind their words. By being the observer of your thoughts and emotions. By not automatically reacting, getting frustrated or mad, saying or doing something dumb. You wait to respond with wisdom or choose to say nothing or to agree. Now many people won’t say anything because they don’t want to have a conflict or other reasons why they don’t reply. That’s not awareness.

You are a Warrior and a Seer

---

To what degree and how much are you balanced more to the selfishness of the ego fear thoughts or more to Gods thoughts of truth and goodness of love? It’s easy to see it in others but what about you?

PART III

Your 3rd choice is one of unlearning, relearning, a total commitment of prayer, faith, & love

1. Understanding that each of us are all a ball of eternal energy, just using a temporary body while here on earth. That we are all a part of Gods eternal energy of Love. You understand fully that we are not separate from God or from each other. One truth, one mind, one perception. We do not die just the temporary body dies, the true you is eternal energy.

2. That the ego controls most of us while we are temporarily in this human body.

3. That we each must awaken from the ego dream. While we can’t entirely delete the ego, we must listen to our true inner self or soul and that we have a choice to unlearn and minimize the ego. Here you must add the 5th agreement, change some of your beliefs, understanding what love really is, and learn to use God’s Knowledge Thought System of Love. To unify your mind and vision with God’s eternal energy.

The choice not to hate them, to forgive, as we all are all part of God’s energy and we all use the Ego Thought System. It’s just varies to the degree in its control over each person. With free will, and the ego’s thought system we choose to distort God’s energy of truth and love. Completely merging your mind with your inner heart or soul or with Gods mind. Because most of us are not fully awake, still living in the ego dream, and most of us forget or are unaware of God’s Love/Knowledge Thought System of …

… One mind, One truth, and One perception.

We are just temporarily using the body as a teaching tool for growing our souls.

1. We are truly eternal energy beings and are also here to enjoy and have fun that the body provides from its 5 senses.

   To become Relentless in both life or love

Assignment:

A… Read The Game, Relationship, Knowledge sections, & any other books mentioned.

Around 90% of all people don’t live in the present or with complete awareness of who they are and that they are the only one in control of their world. They still let the ego control them. If you complete this 3rd step.

1. You must look for the ego in yourself. Minimize it and adopt his Knowledge Thought System

2. You must fully accept you are an eternal ball of energy that is a speck part of God

3. Merge your consciousness, thoughts, intentions an inner heart or soul into God's vision in the energy of his love. A lifelong process of focus and willpower

Congratulations …

… You are a Master of Intention or Love

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These subjects are rarely taught or rarely talked about..

A lot of it is only learned from life experiences. But IMHO, having access to this material can assist you in having an easier life and becoming successful in your personal and professional life. And life is having fun.

Who has talked to you about or given you everyday tools that can make your life easier and better…

This is a huge advantage over 90% or more of everyone else.

#1. Only you control your thoughts

• YOU create your inner world

• YOU control your intentions, desires & beliefs

• YOU control your inner world

We live in our inner world and it's all how we react or respond to the outer world from our inner world. Your energy, attitude, attention, and intentions are yours to control. You decide the frequency or attitude/tone of your energy/actions. It all begins with your intention, whether rooted in love or fear, emanating from the heart or the ego.

“To become a master of our emotions, thoughts, and feelings” (which is how we master our energy, which is how we master our environment, which is how we master our destiny.)

#2. Basic Human Behavior

In order for us to do #1.

Most of us lack awareness or have little education on basic human behavior. We must understand why do we all act the way we do, per……

…..The Ego, The Autopilot Ego Thought System

We have a choice, once we understand basic human behavior, the Ego or God's Knowledge thought System…

#3. After we become aware we are on autopilot to then to quit reacting and living from the ego's autopilot program.

“It doesn’t matter what religion or philosophy you have;

The Four Agreements can be applied by anyone, in any religion or any philosophy in the world. The messenger is completely neutral; it does not give you a philosophy or a religion to follow. It is not telling you how to live your life. The information can go in many different directions because it’s based on awareness; it’s based on common sense. The Four Agreements can be used to help you raise your children, to improve your relationship with your beloved, your parents, or anyone. They may help you to explore and adopt alternative beliefs, but you will transform your dream in your way, not mine. I am not interested in changing your concepts or beliefs; this is up to you.”~Don Miguel

Don’t you want real personal power?

1. Make the Agreement to STOP the reaction to old habits of reacting to ego-based feelings.

2. Make the Agreement to understand your feelings & where most of your fear-based feelings originate from. (The Ego)

3. Make the Agreement to implement the 4 Agreements

YOU must have or develop the willingness, awareness, and discipline to do this.

Emotional education (feelings) and self-control.

REAL POWER - NOT FORCE or CONTROL

By understanding what the Ego is, & that it is our automatic thought system.

It is self-awareness, self-understanding, self-acceptance, and self-love that will develop into real inner personal power.

• Do YOU want to improve your communication skills?

• Do YOU want real emotional self-control?

• The Tolec Wisdom Book Series gives you the steps & basic tools for the start of a good foundation.

You have to learn how to control your emotions and change old habits. Why do we get ego feelings of being angry, resentful, grudged, defensive, blaming, judging, etc…These types of feelings almost always are generated from selfish ego thoughts.

• Your new understanding of human behavior and the fog of the ego.

• The tools presented give you all you need.

• The hard part is re-learning - not to react to the old habits.

Real Power = Self Control: Control your Inner World

There is an inner meaning to everything, an inside to every fact, a hidden Cause within every visible effect.

You have no control of the outer world… Which is everyone else and their actions… How others respond to your words/actions is on them. Which is also based on their inner dream world, and the thickness of their fog or ego.

YOU create your inner world. YOU can only control yourself. YOU control your inner world. You co-create your destiny. We live in our inner world and react or respond to the outer world from our inner world. A solid foundation is important because our inner world is what decides our reactions to the outside world. Which is everything & everyone we experience…. There is nothing outside you. That is what you must ultimately learn

We decide how to react or respond from our inside world. Your inner world is your feelings, beliefs, opinions, attitude, faith, etc… you decide your intentions or thoughts, usually from experienced feelings and often taught or ingrained beliefs, etc… changing your intentions (thoughts) is done by using love to reshape your perception. You control all of this….your inside world controls how you respond to the outside world.

✅ Your whole world is how your inner world responds to the outside world

Change the program-update your software of your mind.

The curriculum you set up is determined exclusively by what you think you are, and what you believe the relationship of others is to you. You cannot give to someone else, but only to yourself. It is impossible not to use the content of any situation based on behalf of what you learn. Life is your classroom…

This isn't for the lazy, you are the teacher and the student

Set your mind to this goal, you must want to do this…..

Implement to learn the following:

“The success of people is due to 23% to our intellectual abilities, and 77% to our emotional skills.” Emotional intelligence (EI) is the ability to perceive, interpret, demonstrate, control, and use emotions to communicate with and relate to others effectively and constructively. This ability to express and control emotions is essential, but so is the ability to understand, interpret, and respond to the feelings of others. It starts by understanding the ego, our standard thought system. This book and the added material break it into easily understandable information and awareness of some universal principles.

1. Emotional Intelligence - Who taught you or your kids about basic human behavior? Why do people act like we do? Why do we often react with anger, frustration, and jealousy? To understand we each live in our self-centered personal opinions, dream world, as the creator, producer, director & star in our movie….. The Ego or the Ego Thought System - Most of us don’t think of the ego as a thought system, & that it is our automatic thought system that runs our personal dream world or movie. This is an important subject, rarely taught & should greatly improve understanding of basic human behavior.

2. Who has given you or talked about everyday tools/skill sets to improve your emotional self-control and communication skills? The most important thing about the book is that it is an excellent communication course by itself. Using the 4 Agreements and applying them in your life should improve your communication skills. Who taught you any basic communication skills? A huge professional and private life advantage…. If nothing else use this as a communication tool…. https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/applying-four-agreements-business-aubrey-armes-phr…

3. Integrity-Personal Foundation Improvement - Code of Conduct - Applying the 4 Agreements can also become an important cog in maintaining or improving your foundation. Do we teach & instill basic principles/values very well? Love, self-respect, self-love, integrity, respect,[honor] Some basics, like the Golden Rule… We are all born with virtues of love, gentleness, kindness, respect, honesty, fairness, justice, and righteousness. But many let the ego thought system override these natural, basic instincts &/or virtues.

4. Self-Love & Love - When has a parent talked to their child about love? Have you or did your parents? Maybe a little generalized info in Sunday school or church! Again, we kinda know what love is. But do we really?

Understanding what love is and MORE importantly, what Love isn’t.

5. Relationships - Who educated you or your kids? What should a relationship consist of? Is it all learned from the experience? Probably, but some self-education can’t hurt. Again, we all intrinsically know basic kindness, etc…

Emotional Intelligence

The more emotionally intelligent you become, the less you take things personally.

You start to see that other people’s behaviours are often reflections of their own struggles, not a statement about your worth.

With time, you learn that many people act out of their own pain, fears, insecurities. Their words and actions often come from what they are carrying inside, not from who you are as a person. When you understand this, you no longer feel the need to argue, prove yourself, let their negativity affect your peace again.

Emotional intelligence teaches you to respond with calmness instead of anger, patience instead of frustration. It gives you the strength to step back and realise, “This is not about me. This is about what they are going through, their ego.” And in that moment, you choose peace over conflict.

You also start showing more compassion, even when people are unkind. You may not agree with their actions, but you begin to see the hurt behind them. This shift allows you to forgive more easily, detach from unnecessary drama, carry a softer heart without being weak.

You begin to value your own energy more and you stop giving away your happiness to every passing mood or opinion of others. You see clearly that your worth does not decrease because someone failed to see it. Their behaviour is simply a mirror of their own battles, not a judgment of your value.

In the end, emotional intelligence helps you carry yourself with grace. You do not take things to heart so easily. You learn to protect your inner world and you realise that the way others act is their story, not yours.

~ Dorothea

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KISS: Simply put, it is based on the GOLDEN RULE

Most of us were taught this in Sunday school. Most of the time, one will or should naturally know from your gut, heart, or both, what is right or wrong for you. Each of us, to varying degrees and success, does this automatically. Some people need a lot of the details that aren't talked about enough. Many people get caught up in the material world and forget what was taught. Sadly, this probably won't help the more egotistical ones, as you have to be willing to learn the majority of this material, and it must be done through your interactions or experiences.

I hope that you do not need this material, I hope you are one of the lucky ones who just know it. But it’s here if it's needed at some point in your life.

Even if you think you or your kids don't need any of this. When many people naturally do or act the right way, do they understand the reasons why they do so? Would it help to understand the concept or the reason why a person should or should not act a certain way? I don't think it will hurt. Isn't there always room for improvement?

Whether you gain any knowledge and apply any of it in your life it is your CHOICE….

LIFE IS ABOUT CHOICE

Life experience is the ultimate teacher, but some of this can be taught or at least made aware to so many more people than it has been offered to or even talked about.

Some people refuse to learn. Some are ‘old souls’. Many are lazy and/or blame others. Most of us can see how the ego controls other people, but a lot of us refuse to see it in ourselves. These topics aren't adequately addressed by parents, religion, or school. Having access to the awareness and/or information in these important areas can only help those who have the want and the will to learn this helpful life knowledge. If remembering or learning even a part of one of these lost lessons helps you realize that ah moment, this would be worth it.

Don't you want to improve your ability to successfully navigate and achieve your goals in life?

Now you can’t claim ignorance as an excuse 😁

IT STARTS BY KNOWING YOURSELF

• So many people don't know who they are

• Many don't know the power they have to become who they can become

• Your power is unlimited….

Life is ATTITUDE

Start with these first 2 questions. To find your way in this world, ask yourself:

1. WHO am I? You will know who you are when you see who you are not.

2. Who do I want to be? A person of Love and integrity? What do you want out of life? What makes you happy?

This is where your personal owner's manual comes into play.

Who you are is not your outer ego personality.

It is who you are inside—your inner heart or soul.

There are not just 2 or 3 main parts, but many inter-tangled parts to minimize the ego.

"You will never change your life until you change the habits you do daily. The secret of your success is found in your daily routine, your self-discipline."

LIFE IS CHOICE & BALANCE

• If you don’t choose, life will choose for you.

• Take responsibility for your path.

• Ownership unlocks freedom.

Study your patterns. The ultimate wisdom comes from knowing your whys. Why do you feel it? Why do you do it? Why do you repeat it? Knowing your whys gives you clarity about who you are. And when you know who you are, you become powerful, dangerous, and unstoppable.

Refuse to walk blindly in life. See what is true and not what you prefer to see.

Always check the integrity of your actions. Is this response fair? Am I being respectful? Would I want to be treated this way? Respect makes it possible to see the other person’s opinion. It makes it possible to know the truth of their movie or dream, self-respect, and respect for others.

You are the one in charge of your thoughts and your movie. You are the commander-in-chief, the president of you. Are you a tyrant? Selfish? Me, Me, Me? Always the victim? Our power is our intent, our spirit. We are connected with everything, and we affect everything through our intent.

• Make your own owner's manual and read the material about Love.

• Incorporate what you want from the power pillars and tools into your manual and your life.

LIFE IS RELATIONSHIPS

Life isn’t about religion, it’s about the energy that runs us, who we are at the core. Life is about the spiritual energy of consciousness.

You were born an artist, and your art is the expression of your spirit; it’s the expression of that force that you are. You know how powerful you are, and that power is real. You know what you learned, and you know that not all your knowledge is real. The truth is happening right in front of you. To experience life is to experience truth. To see the truth makes a huge difference in your world; to become the truth is the real goal because that is the real you. What is not the truth is not important. Your desire for the truth, and your love for the truth, is what is important, and that is the real teaching? ~The 5th Agreement

You are here to learn or grow and have FUN

1. Pay attention to whether or not we are practicing the MIND & HEART PILLARS — prayer, belief, choice, and love. These simple applications can make a world of difference in the quality of life we will experience.

2. Update & improve our core foundation,(owner's manual) understanding your PERSONAL PILLARS of love, honesty & integrity. What and who do you want to be? How are you going to live with honor, love, and integrity? What are your goals and dreams in this life as an ethical, loving human?

3. Constantly apply the 5 Agreements to assist us in our journey. Developing Emotional Self-Control. Acting consciously, not unconsciously. TAO & TOLTEC POWER TOOLS

4. Merging your analytical or thinking mind with the unseen spiritual energy of love from your inner heart or soul.

This takes a great mental and soul commitment to accomplish

It is not what you have or who you have been, but who you become.

Develop the ability to develop critical thinking skills

Life is Desire or Intent

Do I desire a world I rule instead of one that rules me?

Do I desire a world where I am powerful instead of helpless?

Do I want to see what I have so far denied because it is the truth?

Understanding that the ego is the real problem

The TrueTruth

The truth needs to be experienced…

First, one has to understand what the truth is.

What Religion doesn't teach you:

Universal Truth- one vibration, one love, one God & All or everything is one of God

What is true is always eternal, that is the truth. We are eternal. Love is eternal. God is eternal. Material possessions or things are NOT eternal. If an action results in goodness or love that is the truth. Giving is the same as receiving. We don't have to like another person or even associate with them if we choose. You understand they act from their ego thought system, not God's thought system. The origin of all Energy is the action of Free Will upon Love. The nature of all energy is Light

Love is Gods energy it is the whole world that he has created, everything including you. Love is life and life is love. What God had created is Unchangeable and eternal. Love, is the world’s true reality. Intelligent energy is not only an energy within the universe, but it is the universe. Every type of manifestation, every movement, every event, every entity, every energy is some form, or distortion, of intelligent energy.

Consciousness does not think. Consciousness allows Itself to avail Itself of that infinite source of information within. It is in this way that you are attempting through the balancing of the day’s extreme emotions, to give to yourself that which cannot be done without some aid. There is, for instance, no possibility of a person being able to cogitate, ruminate, ideate and manifest love. Indeed, it is possible for such a person to manifest a universal and very real compassion.

At our core, we're all one, a minuscule part of God's eternal energy. We don't have to like another person, or even associate with them if we choose. But we don't condemn them, as that's God's job.

Our true self is of God's energy

God can not help to love you as we are all a part of God. Not God but a speck of his eternal energy of love. Everything he makes is eternal, not dying, but transforming from being in this temporary body to learn and grow, and then going back to our original state. All of us are but a small ball of pure energy.

‘Truth is God and God is Truth.’ I believe that God is also light and love, but certainly truth. Our intellect/brain will die when our bodies die. Our subconscious will not even break stride. This is the field, the energy of love(spirit), our true self, the inner heart or inner soul…

Spiritual vs being Religious

This, isn’t as much about being religious, it is more about becoming spiritual.

The spiritual self: becoming conscious, not thinking with the unconscious ego

“You are not a human being having a spiritual experience. You are a spiritual being having a human experience.” ~WDyer

Your higher self is that aspect of your soul that is in you, but it is not the fullness of your soul. It is a smaller soul self. Therefore, “higher self” is another term for “soul,” yet the soul is more than the higher self.

• Each of us has their own personal opinion, likes, and dislikes.

• Each of us has free will in their intent, choice, and perception.

• Each of us is also at a different level of awareness and emotional maturity.

The 21-day principle used for forming new habits is facilitated through energetic codes within the Human Matrix.

• I am not what happened to me

• I am what I choose to become

To explain in simple terms, the mind takes 7 days per chakra to reset one parameter that has already been coded before. This works out to 21 days for the conscious and subconscious mind to reset a habit held by the 3 lowest chakras or energy bodies, namely the survival body, the sexual body, and the character body. They are the bodies whose energetic constructs hold all physical and mental habits. https://sageuniversity.edu.in/blogs/21-day-rule-bilding-discipline-and-modifying-behaviour (or longer)